Before I delve any further into talking about my experience and thoughts on spanking, I just wanted to let you know that that is all it is- My own thoughts, experience and opinions. I have not been involved in this long enough to have all the answers (or any of them for that matter). But I do enjoy talking about this subject that is so near & dear to my heart.
The more time that passes I see that this thing we do is not the same for all people. We all bring our own past experiences and different desires into spanking, and it continues to amaze me just how different, yet the same, we actually are. What is right for me very well may not be right for other people. But what I hope is that we all strive to understand each other and allow the freedom to be different (as long as we are causing no harm, of course).
Openly talking about it and allowing others to read my writing makes me feel less ashamed of this "fetish" that I have. Most of the time I don't even think of it as a fetish...It is just who I am. The longer I am involved in this the more I see that it is not shameful, it is just that the vanilla world does not understand or comprehend it. They deem anything that doesn't fit perfectly into their mold to be weird or deviant- but who determines normal, really?
So...I hope you enjoy it. If you do please drop me a line so I know people are reading it. :)