My most recent one from someone I don't know:
Hey sexy, where would you like to chat? Here or on Yahoo.When I didn't reply, he says:
Do you want to chat?Now logically his second message should have been the first. But in his mind he just knew that I was jumping at the bit, head over heels wanting to chat with him. I just deleted his two messages and went on about my day. It would be nice to have an introduction first. You know, "Hello my name is _____ etc. etc.
In my own experience it has been 90% males who send these messages. Very rarely do I get a dumb message from a woman. I could bang my head against the wall and fracture my skull trying to figure out why some guys send these types of messages. Are they stupid? Did they have a small lapse in brain activity? Are they just arrogant? Is their junk thinking for them? Do they even realize how what they are saying comes off? My bet is they have no idea how weird they sound.